Some Suggestions For A Happy Day!

* Please have your child walk up to the school each day. (Although you may be tempted to carry him/her, your child will feel more independent and secure in the message by you, to go off to enjoy the new day ahead!)

* We find that a quick, positive, “ I love you”, “I’ll see you soon”, a happy hug, a kiss and a wave to your child in the school entryway is the best way for parents to depart daily.

* It’s usually best not to discuss fearfulness, tearfulness or
reluctance in front of or with your child. If you predict this behavior, he/she might live up to your expectations.

* Please arrive for dismissal promptly...possibly earlier the first few sessions to reassure your child that your arrival can be assured!

* Your child will be glad to see you or their caregiver at dismissal time; this is a vital part of building that all important trust relationship. “My teachers love me, take care of me, guide me in my school day...and then I go safely back to my familiar environment.”

* Once home, after the first few days of school, expect your child to be tired, amazed, shy, introspective, and/or excited when they get home. Be ready to listen; but a warm smile, a little praise and a hug will be much more appreciated than a lot of questions about school at first.

* Remember, “children’s play is their work” and we all know about work! After expending so much physical, mental and emotional energy these first school days, your child may even prefer alone time or a nap after school.

* Our greeter and dismissal teachers will always be happy to schedule times for you to talk in detail about your child. We encourage parents to use our “Parent Grams” to share information about their child. Our director’s cell phone number is always available for parents.